Friday, October 3, 2025

Why Equal Opportunity for Women Is Not “Woke”



 

I encountered two media events in the last couple of days that I thought I would respond to.  The first was an interview of Dana White talking about why there is no such thing as toxic masculinity and that you can’t be too masculine.  The second was the Trump-Hegseth lecture to the commanders of the armed forces and how there would now be male performance standards and grooming standards for members of the armed forces that were consistent with the new warrior ethos. President Trump also made an irresponsible comment about nuclear weapons that I will only say was not strategic or realistic.  He seemed to imply that because we have more of these weapons and they are more modern we could intimidate other nuclear powers and win a war.  I hope that I have been clear on this blog that in even a limited nuclear war whether you are close to the explosions and fallout or not – all of humanity loses.  By loses I mean up to and including extinction of all humans.

As I was watching the Dana White clip my first thought was: “Toxic masculinity is watching two guys inflict brain damage on one another.”  I remember watching him comment early in his career about how people never get injured badly in these fights despite being knocked out by punches, kicks, and chokes. Fighters have died in boxing matches and mixed martial arts competition (MMA) but apparently not in White’s ultimate fighting championship (UFC) competitions.  Despite that distinction it is just not realistic to think there are not injuries from these sudden accelerations and decelerations to the brain in any combat sports.  All it takes is repetitive nonconcussive impacts (1).

Like most of these complex subjects – masculinity and femininity all depend on your definitions.  And in academics the definitions may come down to your field.  My initial attempt at trying to research it yielded a steady stream of papers from the fields of post modern philosophy and literature, gender studies, and English literature.  A Medline search was more productive but still vague. I narrowed it down from 19,266 references (masculinity) to 333 (masculinity AND definition) to 93 (masculinity AND definition AND review). Even then the results are sparse since they include many references to medical disorders that may be masculinizing or feminizing. 

The overall process or how we arrived at stereotype of masculine or feminine is rarely discussed.  It is usually just assumed that the universe of human traits, attributes, and behaviors segregate neatly into two categories based on biological sex. These stereotypes come into play in some assessments like the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory (MMPI).  Scale 5 on that assessment is the Masculinity-Femininity scale.  It contains subscales Mf2 Stereotypic Feminine Interests and MF3 Denial of Stereotypic Masculine Interests.  High scores on the MF2 scale indicate and interest in stereotypical occupational and pastime interests.  High score on the Mf3 scale indicate a denial of stereotypical masculine occupations and interests.  Examples of masculine occupations include a forest ranger or a building contractor). The examples of feminine occupations include librarian or nurse.  Some sources state this scale is not usually interpreted in current use and it was originally intended for use with occupational interest. From the examples given – many of us know men and women working in occupations in opposition to what used to be considered stereotypically masculine or feminine (eg. women park rangers and men nurses).

A relevant dimension that I have not seen investigated in any systematic way is how societal conventions have affected masculinity and femininity stereotypes.  In a patriarchal society, where women have less access to jobs that are dominated by men – it will appear that they chose work based on their preferences. The change in the distribution of men and women in the work environment has changed dramatically in the past 40 years. When I started in medical school there were specialties where women were actively discriminated against and their numbers were naturally low. In psychiatry – I have never worked in a department where there were fewer women than men.  That includes jobs where heavy physical work predominates. All things equal – women have demonstrated that they can perform as well in jobs that men do.  That includes professional sports.  In this previous post – I pointed out the landmark district court ruling that expanded women’s access to high school sports with the result being highly skilled professional sports teams.

This wholescale integration of women into all aspects of society has been overwhelmingly positive.  The obvious rational argument is that no society can afford to eliminate the intellectual, creative, and physical resource of half of their population without suffering.  The proof of that is in what has happened so far. More high caliber workers and researchers and overall a much more productive society.  If there has been a downside – I have missed it.  Feel free to let me know about it in the comments below.

There has been a predictable political reaction to the integration of women in the workplace. Forty years ago, the family model was the husband was the breadwinner and the wife was expected to be the homemaker.  If a woman dared to get hired into a predominately male workplace – they were criticized for taking a job from a man. Their choice was to brave that criticism or take a traditionally female job where compensation was less. There are social and political forces out there today that think that 40-year-old model was the best one.  They do not seem women in the workplace as a tremendous asset, only a detriment.  That often extends to women not being seen as physical or intellectual equals or having the same basic problem as men needing to generate income for families.  The end result of that bias is a male-centric society operating on male gender stereotypes.    

Dated masculine-feminine stereotyping also works against men.  Here is an example.  Sam wants to bring one of his college professors home for a visit.  He lives in a scenic part of the state and his professor said he would like to see it.  He is concerned about how his professor will be perceived by his largely blue-collar family and friends.  He confides in another friend at college: “I am worried that my professor’s vocabulary, style, and articulation will not be accepted.  I am really worried they will think he is gay and he is not.”  This brief example points to common stereotypes used by subcultures and some of the associated problems.  In this case, the subculture demands that men exercise a very limited male stereotype and if they move too far outside of that they will be criticized or not tolerated.

Common criticism of the concept of toxic masculinity is that it is not well defined, it can be stigmatizing, and the outcomes of people who have it are not well studied.  Considering all the possible traits, attributes, and vocations it is easy to imagine that a sample of men with relatively homogeneous toxic masculinity might be difficult to find.

Some authors have attempted a definition.  Sanders, et al (3) use a dimensional approach across 5 categories: masculine superiority, domination and desire, gender rigidity, emotional restriction, and repressed suffering. The researchers came up with a 35-item scale consisting of statements that subjects disagreed or agreed with on a 5-point scale.  The entire scale is available at reference 2.  A few examples of the test statements:

6. People are attracted to men who dominate others

7. Muscles are indicators of masculinity

10. Men are superior to women

11. Gender and sex are the same thing

15. Men cheating on their partner is natural

 The only aggression noted in the scale is sexual aggression in the statement: “Men can’t rape women because consent isn’t a real thing.”  There are no statements about verbal or physical aggression. The authors conclude the scale has adequate psychometric properties but it appears form the references that it was not widely adopted. 

Rather than define toxic masculinity in terms of what it is – a better approach may be to define it in terms of what it is not. I suggest the following:

1:  Acceptance of women as equals in every possible way – entitled to the same rights, independence, and privileges as men in society.  I am sure that most people agree with this on paper – but in many applications this statement is still difficult to implement.

2:  Refusal to accept the stereotype that women and the physical appearance of woman are primarily for the sexual interest and satisfaction of men.  This is commonly referred to as objectifying women, and despite an equality revolution in the 1970s it still permeates most aspects of American society. As far as I can tell there has been no initiative to educate boys at an early age about this bias and how it can affect their sexual behavior. We are counting on men to become self-enlightened at some point in their lives.

3:  Aggression against women as either physical or verbal forms of aggression is never acceptable. Aggression in general and the potential for aggression including the use of firearms is identified by some as a masculine trait. Aggression against women is a complex construct because in many cases it involves seeing a woman as the exclusive property of a man.   

4:  All people must be accepted and not discriminated against based on masculine or feminine stereotypes.  This is more complicated than it seems. My example of the professor in a blue-collar world is one – but there are many more. It includes the idea that gender is not necessarily equivalent to biological sex.

Coming around to the introductory paragraph.  Dana White’s comment about how “you can’t be too masculine” requires context and definition.  He provided neither. If he includes encouraging people to beat people up – even if they are consenting adults and doing it as a job then I would disagree.  I notice his standard argument is that he has improved the medical and safety standards of the UFC so that nobody has died (there have been fatalities in both mixed martial arts (MMA) and professional boxing). I would not agree. Most men are not UFC fighters and don’t get into physical altercations at all.  Prevalence surveys suggest that 30-40% of adolescent males get into fights (versus 20% of females), 1/3 of adult males get into fights, 1/3 may be at risk for intimate partner violence, and about 10% of male homicides are preceded by a fight.  Substance use and intoxication are frequent correlates.  I am personally aware of 5 cases where bar fights resulted in death.  In all cases the victim was struck just once.  All these prevalence studies also investigate aggression from women and the numbers are lower but substantial.

It may be easier for some people to see aggression as a male trait pushing into a zone of toxic masculinity.  There are too many complicating factors to make that statement.  I would suggest that an attitude of needing to settle disputes no matter how trivial with physical violence or using physical violence to intimidate people or take advantage of them crosses that line.  In that case – aggression is overvalued beyond any societal norm.     

In terms of classification – masculinity stereotypes are qualitative rather than quantitative categories.  Nobody is measuring them in terms of quantity and the same thing applies at the biological level.  Testosterone levels have a cutoff between normal and deficient and is age adjusted. Having more testosterone does not make you more masculine but it may cause side effects. The same might be said of any psychological construct of toxic masculinity.

There has been a good response to the awkward Hegseth lecture from retired Generals and women who served as officers, pilots, and in special forces. The consensus of that sample at this point is that the lecture was an insult to women in the military (as well as the assembled officers) because they perform as well as the men and did not get any special considerations for promotion or placement in combat ready positions.  There has been a pattern of regulations that prevented women from serving in combat or special forces that seems to be implemented on an arbitrary basis. The women who qualified and served are proof that they can do that work like they have done every other kind of work in modern society.  There was also a suggestion that without women, enlistment quotas would not be met.  Beyond these comments there are many references on women in the military and in combat positions by country and policy.  It is not like this is a novel consideration.

These same generals pointed out why the officers in the room at that lecture would not be saying anything.  Military protocol is that they must defer to civilian authority and cannot question it.  They also pointed out the exception that they cannot follow illegal orders.  The retired generals all said this is why Trump’s comments about deploying the military in cities and using the military against civilians was wrong. 

What is the real difference between men and women fighter pilots and combat veterans? Just a Y chromosome. That’s it and there is nothing "woke" about it.

 

George Dawson, MD, DFAPA


Supplementary 1:  What about Fuck Around and Find Out (FAFO) messaging? 

This blurb from Hegseth:

“That's why pacifism is so naive and dangerous. It ignores human nature and it ignores human history. Either you protect your people and your sovereignty or you will be subservient to something or someone. It's a truth as old as time.

And since waging war is so costly in blood and treasure, we owe our republic a military that will win any war we choose or any war that is thrust upon us. Should our enemies choose foolishly to challenge us, they will be crushed by the violence, precision and ferocity of the War Department. In other words, to our enemies, FAFO.”

If you are naïve to hep Internet slang (like I am) – you might have had to look up FAFO (like I did).  As noted in the above sentence – it is aggressive language.  The type of language you can see expressed in the road rage incidents of any real crime TV show. It is not the longstanding peace through strength position that the US has taken with previous administrations.  When you spend more on your military than the next 10 countries in the world and have a large standing military it could be construed as the language of a bully trying to provoke someone into unwise action. I am sure that I could provide some quotes from Sun Tzu that would make more strategic sense.  I am also sure that is why his line fell flat with military officers who are scholars in this area.

It is not the first time the FAFO rhetoric has been used by the Trump administration. Eight months ago Trump posted a photo of himself dressed like a gangster in front of an FAFO sign on his social media.  It was a message to Columbia after they refused to receive 2 airplanes carrying deported immigrants. Trump apparently threatened tariffs and visa bans. 

In keeping with the one of the overall themes of this post – is this form of symbolism and verbal aggression toxic masculinity?  If you consider gangsters and verbal aggression to be a masculine trait – then yes, it is.  


Supplementary 2:

Commentary from retired Generals on the Hegseth speech.  All links are to transcripts or videos.

Retired Brigadier General Ty Seidule:  Retired Army brigadier calls Hegseth and Trump's military meeting 'an insult'. Link

Retired Lt. Gen. Mark Hertling:  A Retired General Blasted Trump And Pete Hegseth For Their "Insulting" And "Offensive" Remarks To Military Leaders.  Link and Link

Retired Major General Randy Manner:  Major General Takes on Trumps “Enemy Within” Comment Link

Retired Army Gen. Barry McCaffrey: Comments on Trump Hegseth  Link

Retired U.S. Army Major General Mark MacCarley: Link

Retired Lt. Gen. Russel Honoré:  Retired general criticizes Trump and Hegseth’s new military standards.  Link

Retired Lt. Gen. Ben Hodges: Link

Ret. General Wesley Clark: “A lot of the rhetoric that came out struck me as culture wars stuff.”  Link


References:

1:  Daneshvar DH, Nair ES, Baucom ZH, et al. Leveraging football accelerometer data to quantify associations between repetitive head impacts and chronic traumatic encephalopathy in males. Nat Commun. 2023 Jun 20;14(1):3470. doi: 10.1038/s41467-023-39183-0. PMID: 37340004; PMCID: PMC10281995.

2:  Graham JR. The MMPI – a Practical Guide. 2nd ed.  Oxford, England: Oxford University Press, 1987:  136-139.

3:  Sanders SM, Garcia-Aguilera C, Borgogna NC, Sy JR, Comoglio G, Schultz OA, Goldman J. The Toxic Masculinity Scale: Development and Initial Validation. Behavioral Sciences. 2024 Nov 14;14(11):1096.

 

Graphics Credit:

Wikimedia Commons:  English: Corporal Brandy Bates, a team member with Female Engagement Team 8 and native of Ann Arbor, Mich., walks around the corner of a mud wall while supporting soldiers from the Afghan National Army’s 215th Corps and U.S. Marines with Lima Company, 3rd Battalion, 7th Marine Regiment, during a recent foot patrol through the village of Tughay, Sangin district, Helmand province. The FET supports 3/7 by bridging the cultural gap and interacting with the local Afghan women.

This image was released by the United States Marine Corps with the ID 111206-M-GF563-025 posted on December 15, 2011.

https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Female_Engagement_Team_builds_trust,_rapport_with_women_in_Sangin_111206-M-GF563-025.jpg

 

 


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